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As a leader, there are many times people feel like the mediator between opposing viewpoints. They’re steering towards a common, shared vision, but there are a myriad of opinions in how they accomplish the vision.
Don’t be afraid of conflict on a team. In fact, it can be healthy for the team if handled correctly. It keeps tension from building unnecessarily, simply because emotions and opinions were hidden rather than addressed. It brings new ideas to the table and welcomes input from everyone. When conflict is ignored or stifled, it makes people feel devalued and controlled.
Here are 7 thoughts for managing conflict on a team:
Interfere sparingly – Try not to take sides in conflict anymore than you have to, even when you have your own opinion. If the conflict isn’t a vision issue, and it seems to be resolving on it’s own; it is best if you allow the process to take it’s course. When the leader gets involved in conflict it takes on a new life; often unnecessarily.
Listen carefully – Try to hear both sides of the conflict. Normally there are valid points on both sides. It’s important that you hear not only what is said, but also what is unspoken. That takes asking questions, getting to know the members of the team, and not assuming you know what people are thinking simply by what they say. Understanding the basis of conflict and the opposing viewpoints is critical to understanding the conflict.
Communicate – During times of conflict, it’s even more important that communication be clear and consistent. Many times, conflict is simply due to a lack of clarity or miscommunication. Information often makes conflict easier to resolve. As leader, part of the responsibility is making sure the team communicates effectively.
Discern the real issue – Conflict develops for a number of reasons; not all of them good. Beyond miscommunication, conflict also develops over power struggles, weak leadership, or simply personality differences. Discerning the nature of the conflict and if there is a root issue (often unspoken or undefined) helps to avoid trying to solve the perceived conflict, when the real issue is something completely different.
Monitor impact – Conflict in and of itself is not bad, but part of the job is making sure conflict on a team doesn’t begin to harm, rather than promote, health of the team and it’s members. When individuals begin to attack each other personally, act in anger, form sides within the team, or distract from progress, it’s time for the leader to interfere.
Vision – Ultimately, the job as a leader is to maintain the integrity of the vision. Conflict can enhance or interfere with attaining the vision. A leaders job is to continually direct the team’s attention back to their purpose.
Don’t be afraid of conflict on a team. Good leaders learn to manage it for the overall good of the team.
At Uptown Consulting we are a team environment and we always love to spice things up with a little competition from time to time. Shaun, Uptown Consulting’s President, decided to run a week long competition for the Account Manager that acquired the most new accounts while also contributing to organizational growth. Traci Carroll won the competition by a landslide! Traci got to join the rest of the management team at Tuesdays Charlotte Bobcats vs. Boston Celtics game. This was the first competition that Traci has won and we have a feeling that it will be the first of many!